Saturday, May 14, 2005
How LONGGGGGGGG is long??
Once my friend ask me, how long (as in time) a relationship would it be consider stable?? 2 years?? 3, 5, 7?? Well, I told him 2~3 years.
He shot me with his answer, “Weijian, you should change your mentality”.
“Love is compromising. 2~4 years is to test if you can still compromise your partner. If u can’t do that 2~4 years ain’t enough to see his/her true colour. Only after 2~4 years, you can still continue, that’s long enough”
So I told him my theory of Love using plain water as an example.
First, you’re thirsty, you see a cup of plain water. The first sip, “Gosh!! Heavenly!! It’s like honey”. When you’ve quench your thirst, the second sip, “Gosh, It’s plain…” Finally, you’re too full to drink, the third sip, “I want to vomit!!”
So he ask, “Want to vomit? So after vomit? What? Look for soft drink??” I was dumbstruck.
That was fun…